How males can support women as allies
There are many actions men can adopt to advocate gender equality in the workplace. After speaking with both male and female leaders to gauge what delivered positive change within their organisations, we narrowed them down to the following recommendations:
As a male employer
1. Model the right behaviours
Men should be mindful of the work environment they create and the message they send in modelling the right behaviours. Male employees should avoid making assumptions about female employees, including their needs, goals and ambition levels. For example, a male manager’s well-intentioned move to ‘help’ a new mother by taking her out of an international job assignment may instead end up negatively affecting her career progression. Instead, the manager should check with the employee directly whether she wants to be considered for such a position – if the answer is positive, he should actively support her to make it work.
2. Recruit inclusively
Men should insist that hiring teams in the organisation consider a high percentage of resumés representing top female talent. Men should also practise empathy when hiring by putting themselves in the shoes of female candidates by understanding their experience and acknowledging their need to feel valued and respected.
As a male team member
3. Listen more and talk less
Talking to female colleagues with the intention of listening and understanding the challenges they face and the support they need will inspire trust and respect. Creating awareness through sincere dialogue enables male advocates to provide actionable support in the workplace.
SHARING DATA AND RESEARCH THAT DEMONSTRATES HOW DIVERSITY IMPROVES PRODUCTIVITY AND FINANCIAL RETURN WILL HELP MEN GET INTERESTED IN ACTIVELY GETTING INVOLVED WITH DIVERSITY EFFORTS.
4. Call out inequality
Males can support women who are being treated poorly or harassed in any way by speaking up and reporting negative events to HR. Men can also show support by sharing articles and videos that support the gender equality and greater female participation theme on social media. Even such small acts can make a difference as a male leader.
5. Sponsor a high potential woman
Males in senior positions can advocate for female employees by supporting their application for promotions and ensuring that they get the training and development support they need to move up the career ladder.
6. Mentor/coach a high potential woman
Males in senior positions can offer to mentor and/ or coach a high potential female employee by recognising their strengths and identifying strategies to accelerate professional growth. Conversely, they can also offer to coach underperforming female colleagues and identify strategies to address their gap areas and keep them focused.
Embraer
Four ways that organisations can enable men’s engagement with female participation efforts
How can organisations drive active male advocacy in the advancement of women?
- Make it a business issue rather than a diversity or HR one
Organisations who frame gender balance as a diversity or a women’s issue might be less successful in engaging men than those who frame it as a business challenge. According to Avivah Wittenberg-Cox, if organisations want to get a broad base of support for balance from men, the ‘business imperative’ is a more effective frame. Avivah adds “until leaders are convinced that gender balance is a strategic level for the business and become convincing to their teams why that is, balance remains a politically correct sideline”. - Measure and celebrate progress
Businesses should share data and research regarding various female participation, D&I initiatives and impact to eliminate confusion about their value. By using quantifiable metrics to assess D&I success, organisations can reduce uncertainty regarding the initiative’s purpose. Also, with data, leaders are in a better position to take actions and advance progress. - Make balance a measurable management skill
Businesses should recognise and reward their managers according to their ability to build gender-balanced teams. Wittenberg-Cox believes the best way to bring about this change in culture is to normalise gender balance as a management skill that needs building. Organisations should educate managers to become more gender-aware and have them learn about gender difference, so that they become adept at flexing their management styles to suit their target audience. - Have the will to drive change
According to Jeffery Tobias Halter, President of YWomen, a consultancy focused on engaging men in women’s leadership advancement, organisations must openly and publicly commit to change. Businesses and their leaders should never be satisfied with the status quo but look at their numbers and take action. It could then be argued that changing the numbers often precedes any real change in behaviours, beliefs and cultures since there is strength in the collective voices of a critical mass.
Five ways women can engage and support male advocates
Interviews with female leaders revealed that women can play a significant role in bringing men into the conversation and support their efforts as male allies.
This is how FIRST can help
- Facilitate
Inviting men to be part of the conversation about gender equality builds awareness, creates alliances and fosters a diverse perspective within the group. If men are free to attend events and have an active role in defining and rolling out inclusive programmes, they are more likely to engage in gender equality activities. Additionally, men are more likely to respond to personal appeals from colleagues, friends and family members, as opposed to formal directives and/ or mandated programmes. - Initiate
Sharing data and research that demonstrates how diversity improves productivity and financial return will help men get interested in actively getting involved with diversity efforts. Consequently, talking about the relevance of gender diversity as it applies to their own roles within the organisation might appeal to one’s sense of fairness and social responsibility. - Recognise
Affirming the impact and work of your allies and sharing success stories related to collaborative efforts will help engage more men within the business and drive lasting change. As a mentor to men, women can play an important role in helping men address their own biases and fears. Additionally, as mentors to younger men, women can help prepare the pipeline of the next generation of male allies. - Share
Women sharing the challenges and obstacles they have faced in the workplace as well as their strengths, passions and career game plans with men could serve as a powerful tool in building understanding and increasing empathy in their male colleagues. - Tag
Women could also do more to tag the positive male role models and advocates in their lives and acknowledge them in appropriate ways. This could create a knock-on positive effect for other men to follow suit and join in the conversation.
British Airways
Avoiding gender silos
To achieve lasting change, female participation, D&I initiatives must be treated with the same attention and level of importance as any other business imperative.